As we’re walking down the street, she says to me, “you know, you’ve said so many nice things to me, but of all the nice things the one I like best was what you said tonight, ‘I was a jerk’… That makes me happiest.”
It’s true and I was. But here she is giving me a second chance. It’s amazing when someone gives you a second chance isn’t?
Men are jerks, that’s just a fact. Afraid and filled with secrets and lies. We’re watching TV and I turn to my daughter and say,”trust none of us…except me.”
“Huh?”, she’s confused
“Men,” I say.
“You’re a man?” she says? I don’t know what that means, I hardly know what anything means or what she thinks of anything. Will I have the right to be pissed at the boys who are jerks to her? Or will I look at them as they come crawling back for thier second chances – wont our eyes meet in some sort of terrible understanding?
There is the one that got away. Actually there are a few. Then there’s the one I pushed away, and then there are the ones who won’t give up on you either because you’re special or they’re just hardheaded.
What is my point here?
If it never feels okay to be a jerk, to lie, not call, not talk, pretend; then maybe you aren’t one.